My boyfriend and I were together for 2 yearsbefore we lived together. We lived together for 8 months than he decided he wasn't happy in California so he took off to Massachusetts to be closer to his family. I was not able to go with him. He didn't even seem to care about my feelings or how much he hurt me. Than he started signing up for all these dating websites he claimed he was looking for guys so he can make new friends. But when I saw his profiles it said he was single and looking for women. I haven't said anything about it I did question him once about one of the sites he joined he said he was just looking for friends. He also added 3 new girls to his myspace profile that live in the area he lives in. I am so fed up with this LDR. I don't know how much longer I can last. What should I do?

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Originally Posted by crushed222

He didnt even seem to care about my feelings or how much he hurt me. Than he started signing up for all these dating websites he claimed he was looking for guys so he can make new friends. But when I saw his profiles it said he was single and looking for women. [...] What should I do?

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So familiar it's scary.
I would turn around and walk away. Never look back, he's no good.

Its terrible when a guy leaves and doesn't take you with him. Its worse, when you know he is cheating, but don't know what to do about it.

Just disappear, and be done with it, and ignore him.

Dump him. He sounds like he doesn't care about your feelings at all, and it also sounds like he's got other things on his mind that are more important to him right now (hooking up with other girls) At least if you end the relationship, the ball will be in your court, and you'll look like the stronger one. Show him how much better you are without him, and what he will be missing out on, you never know he could come around. After all, guys always want what they can't have.
Be strong, and hopefully everything works out for you.