I'm 17 years old and my ex is 18. I dated my ex boyfriend for almost a year and we had such good times together and were in love. We broke up about 3 months ago and it's been the worst for me. Hes dating a girl in my grade and they have been together for about 2 months. He has already told her he loves her and I guess she loves him too. Me and him don't talk anymore because he told me he wants nothing to do with me and he has said some really rude things (I know its bad but I can't help but he in love with him) He told me he never loved me but he also has said that he his other girlfriend that he was with for a year. I guess he's really crazy about this new girl.. although she's total opposite of me. He seems jealous cause I had a thing with this guy and he would ask if we were going to date.. idk if he actually is jealous but that's how I see it... I really need some good advice to at least be friends with him.. we haven't talked for 2 weeks. And it's really hard since we were so close and he was my best friend.

You want to be friends with someone who says he doesn't/or never loved you?

That's not love, that crazy. Sorry, but you do better getting a new best friend. One that doesn't lie to you!

Liars are not good people to want to talk to. Sorry.

Wow you were together nearly a year and he's moved on in the matter of a month! Sounds like he'd fall in love with anyone with a pulse, the only reason your still hung up on him and think you love him is because he's moved on and you haven't. He sounds like an ***, why would you want to be friends with such a guy, as talaniman said find a new friend, get out there and start mingling with girls and boys and extend your social circle and when you do, you will soon feel sorry for this new girlfriend...

Get rid of this guy. He is obviously saying things to hurt you, why would you want to be friends.

As far as the other Girl being Jealous, you can't control that. But you can try really hard to AVOID it by not being friends with the EX.

--- Word of Advice >>>>>>> When you break up or are broken up with, move on. It is difficult to remain friends after.. and it takes mature people to make that happen (he is def. not there yet, and you may well not be either).

In Short, move on.