Im 13 I think I'm in love with my curent boyfriend! Ive been on and off with him a lot for over a year! We've had one huge fight when he cheated with my best friend (some best friends she was)I ignored him for 2 mounths I deleted his number his skype info and unfriended him on fb and bebo! I moved to my mothers house in a different town so I wouldn't run into him. I was heart broken, depressed even. But after him calling thousands of times I gave in. I couldn't help it he makes so happy! :) This Could just be young love but it feels way more real I always told myself any one ever cheats never go back once a cheat always a cheat but I just had to be with him we were so close, so I taut! Hes so sweet constenly telling me how much he loves me and how much I meen to him and I beleve him now my trust for him is back. And I Know he's not just trying to get into my pants because he's talked to me about sex and I told him no and he was cool with it! So what do ye think could it be love? I think so <3

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we've had one huge fight when he cheated with my best friend (some best friends she was)

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I find it interesting that you comment about what a poor excuse for a best friend your best friends was, but your boyfriend, who also cheated, seems to be in the clear.

You're 13. I remember being in love when I was 13. Boy did it feel real. It wasn't. You aren't in love either, but I'm sure our feelings are very strong. I'm sure you think this is the real thing.

When you get older and really do fall in love, you'll see the difference.

Also, if you have to ask other people whether you're in love, then you definitely aren't.

Yeah Yur Rite I Forgave Him before Her.. Dna Why!
So Should I Get Over it And Forget about Him Or..?

Hello H:

I think it's real... The problem is you're 13 and don't know how to deal with it. I still love the girl I loved when I was 13, and I had no idea what to do about it..

excon

Yeah But Now Im Gessing Your Older . Could Jaa Tell Me How Ta Deal Wid It ? Like You Sed I Don't Know How To?

Just have fun. That's what being 13 is about. When I say fun, I mean safe fun. Date, go out, enjoy being young. No sex. You're way too young for that.

If it's meant to be, it will last. If not, it will end, then you'll learn how to deal with it. We all do sooner or later. :)

As for the cheating. Did you two ever discuss it after you got back together? What made him cheat to begin with, and with your best friends no less?

Even the best of relationships are hard, but once someone has cheated, betrayed your trust, it's even harder, especially when you're only 13.

Yeah I Sed It To Him He Had The Worst Excuse Of Al Tyms.. Sorri I Was Bored Nd You Wernt Dare.. <Come On Bored? What Pissed Me Off So Much Is Mi M8 Is Really Pretty And She Had A Fella But She Still Went For Mine? Plus At The Tym All Dat Was Going Tru My Head Was Her Not Him I Was Tinkin She's Me Friend Since We Wer Knee High Nd Hes A Lad They Come And Go.. Jaa Get Were Im Cumin From ?

I do get it, but your boyfriend should also be your best friend. You should feel just as betrayed by him.

If you can forgive him, why not her? Is it because you think that boys cheat? Do you think you deserved to be cheated on? I don't.

He did it once. He'll probably do it again, especially if he gets bored.

That's something to think about.

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Originally Posted by hopie_baby

Could Jaa Tell Me How Ta Deal Wid It ? Like You Sed I Dont Know How To?

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Hello again, h:

That's the problem. You can't teach a 13 year old to act like a 27 year old. There's only ONE thing that'll do that - and that's TIME.

excon

Please do not use texting here. We type in full words and sentences here.

At 13 you shouldn't even be dating one on one. The reason for that is you don't have the experience or maturity to deal with romantic relationships. Your situation proves that.

Hey I totally know how you feel me and my ex are the same way accept he never cheeted on me. I would wish that too true love at 13 because I'm 13 as well but I don't really think my ex is getting the message because hezz too mad at me but I will give it time to see if he finally gets out of his little phase. Hahahha :) boys can be so complicated but I love emm!! Any way I don't knoe if it is true love but what I do knoe is that true love has no memory so if you can forgive him and not even remember what he did wrong then maybe it is true love... I just hope the same thing will happen with my ex and I will end up back together because I really and alwayzz have loved him and no one els has made me as happy as he does I LOVE YOU WILLIAM!!

Yeah Well You Have To Get The Experience Some Time Right ?:P