So this is complicated. I lost rights to my daughter 11yrs ago and just recently gained power of attorney to get some things done for her. I have been trying to get a hold of my ex husband so he can send me a letter notarized and stating that he is relinquishing all rights as well as being a part of her life. I have heard that you can just call the county and state that he is located in and put an ad in the paper for at least 2 weeks. I have no clue how to go about this... I guess what I am trying to say is what would you say in that type of situation to be placed in a new paper? Any help would be greatly appreciated.