My dad cheated on my mom. She found out after a year of him doing this... he has 4 different girlfriends. They are now getting divorced. I also found out my dad was watching porn and playing with himself when my brother was sleeping in the same bed. My brother woke up more then one night and saw and pretended to be asleep because he's only 10 and didn't know what to do. I just need to know what's the best way to move forward from this?

I don't think that you are responsible for your father's actions. Tell your mother the information that you have collected and let her make her decisions about what she is going to do with the ill person that she chose to marry.

Good luck,

Kavi

Tell your mom everything.

Tell your dad he's a ****! What father masturbates in the same bed and his 10 yr old son! :S I hope he's ashamed of himself! That's just beyond wrong... as for situation... I'm in a similar thing... my mum cheated on my dad this summer he doesn't know.. but he knows something not right... and he comes to me and says I don't know what to do anymore... why is your mother like this etc... and my mum comes to me and says oh I'm so unhappy in this relationship... you get the idea.. so I'm in the middle... but what you need to consider that no matter what they are both your parents... and as hard as it may be.. this is their problem.. you keep yourself busy as best you can... and your brother... don't allow the poor boy to sleep in the same bed as your father... things like that lead to physiological problems later in life... but mostly... block out their problem... their adults and they'll solve it... you concentrate on yourself and your brother... because your parents might not notice now but they will be grateful one day for it. Hope this helps :)