I been having sex with the same girl for 6yrs she is the only girl i ever been with well i recently found out that she has had sex with somebdoy else. About two months ago i went to the restroom and saw two little bumps under my forskin and it's a little bit tore im not circumcised.it only hurts when i have sex and i tried using condoms bt it still hurts.can you please help me and tell me what this could be i heard it sounds like herpes bt i dnt have any other symptoms of herpes and my girlfriend has no symptoms at all.please someone what could this be??