My boyfriend just isn't interested in sex anymore...
We've never been crazy in the sack or anything, but for the past year have had a consistent love life. The past few months he's just been getting less and less sexual. In every other aspect though, the relationship is exactly the same. He is sweet, affectionate, takes me on dates, compliments me etc. Whenever I ask him why we have sex so rarely, he says that it's because he has a hard time making me climax (this is true, he doesn't last very long most of the time) and that it's just no fun for him unless he knows I'm equally pleasured. For me though, it's more about an emotional closeness that I feel during, and I told him this, but still, nothing. It's almost like he feels inferior because he doesn't get me off every time. He finds ways of getting out of having sex like saying he's tired, has to get up early, or gets in the middle of an online poker tournament, anything I can't interrupt. Meanwhile I get more and more frustrated and sensitive, feeling unnatractive or undesirable. What can I do or say to get him interested again? Please help!