25 years of sexual paycological abuse financial control resulting in loss of home and grave illness.Human rights right to life abuse.torture by contolling person in ascendant position

Please clarify your question as it makes little sense as it stands.

I changed the title of your post since, as far as I know, we have no solicitors as members here. But that doesn't mean we can't help, we do have many people with knowledge in Family Law.

The problem is we don't know what your question is. It appears you are describing an abusive marriage, but its not clear. Nor do you ask any question.

If you are in an abusive marriage then you consult a solicitor and file for divorce. If there is something else we can help you with, please clarify.