I am very aroused by my partner, but I lost my erection when I attempted to penetrate. I was stimulated and hard during first oral, but the transition made me lose it, and I could not get it back. I am young and physically active, however, I masturbated in the morning. Did that affect it? What is going on?

Sounds like Performance Anxiety to me.

You need to relax and concentrate on your partners needs rather than your own.

How 'young' is 'young'?

16

Dexter, we can't give you advice about sex because you are under 18.

If you get a chance to read this before it gets deleted, please take a step back and work on the relationship without sex. It will end up being stronger than one where an accidental pregnancy forces you to stay together.

We are very safe and use a condom every time, thank you for your help though.

A condom is not enough protection to prevent you from being called Daddy in nine months.

I'm going to close this thread but not remove it. The name of the forum is ADULT Sexuality. What made you think you qualified as an adult?

As Cat noted, since you are underage, we cannot give any advice to help you with sexual activity. What we can do is advise you that you are on a questionable course. NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse until they are emotionally, physically and financially ready to have a child. You are none of the above.

In addition to the risk of pregnancy, you also risk the possibility of a statutory rape charge since there is a good chance your partner is underage.

So stop playing at being an adult and concentrate on school.