So about 2 years ago my boyfriend at the time cheated on me and we broke up.. I was crushed and then later found out she was pregnant after them only dating for 2 months. After the baby was born he started calling me and we starting hooking up. He had to move away for a job, but every now and then he will text me and flirt... it makes it so hard because I still love him even to he lives far away. I guess I just want him to want me. Am I crazy? Is he only calling and texting me because he is bored... does the text mean he loves me or just lust after me. He has told me at times he doesn't love his girlfriend, but is there for the baby, but never really says he wants to be with me... is he just saying that to keep me holding on?

Yes, he is saying that to keep you holding on!Sorry to be harsh but He does NOT love you!The fact remains is that he is still with this girl! and they have a family together!I know you love him but he does not deserve your love!He is carrying on with his life, while you are stuck in the past, and you deserve better!Just do no contact with him!It will be tough initially,but trust me with time and no contact you will realise this guy is not the one for you and you deserve so much better!Goodluck and live your life!

You dodged a bullet once with this lying cheater, and now he has a baby mama, and wants you back? Naw, look forward, not back or you are taking a chance on him cheating yet again.

Just because he has only one baby mama, doesn't mean he wasn't going behind you back cheating on you with some unknown female, and doesn't have some unknown female now.

Is he worth all this? Don't you think you could do better than very sloppy seconds? Or thirds? Or fourths?? Hmmm, you don't really know do you?? And can you trust his word??

Hooking up with him after all that he did was wrong.

Not sure why you want a cheater that got someone else pregnant anyway.

Hes just wants sex from you. He just wants you hanging around for more hookups later.

Screw your head on straight. Forget this loser.

There's good men out there. He's not.
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He has no business flirting with you, and you have no business flirting with him.

He has a girlfriend and a baby. What do you think he's looking for with you. And more importantly, why don't you block him, and stop participating in what could potentially turn out to be disastrous for all concerned.

He is not available, and neither should you be, to him.

I would advise you to stop the games, let him step up and take care of his girlfriend and his baby, and find an honest, trustworthy single man without any attachments.

Thanks for the responses, all that everyone is saying is what I already knew and it is good to hear from outside people... consider me on the road to recovery