Confused how to approach dating
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Hey guys! It has been 2 years since I broke up with my ex and now think I'm ready to start seeing people. Just recently, a guy I work with asked me if I wanted to hang out and we did. I think we both are pretty much attracted to each other. Also, I heard from someone he works with that he really likes me too. The only problem is... he doesn't really show it!! I think he recently just came out of a relationship a couple months ago. I'm confused. I don't know what he's looking for.
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Have fun getting to know each other without complications>> That's the thing. When people start paying for stuff, I feel weird. The first date we split the charge, for the second, he took care of it. I don't know if I should just tell him I'm confused or just let it be and see what unfolds.
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I'm aware that dating someone you work with may bring complications. So I really don't want to rush into anything either. I guess I was just a tad bit nervous since it was kind of my first actual one on one hang out with guy. We'll see what happens. Thank You for your feedback :o)
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Thank You... Thats exactly how I feel... Here we go again... Oh well that too confuses me about the who pays for who... I actually have to talk to him about this type of stuff,, because its okay for once in a while but not all the time.. its just how I am.. I GUESS
Only communicates by texts
Hey everyone. So I've been seeing this guy for a month or so. When we first started seeing each other he would call only because I didn't have a cell phone at the time. But as soon as I got my phone I have only received texts and no calls what's so ever! We have a very conflicting schedule and he also has two kids from a previous marriage (I haven't met them). Being that we have hooked up really confused everything and I do not know what his motives are. And now he really doesn't text me unless I start it. What is your in put? We've made plans to meet up sometime next week and would like to talk to him about this. Thanks guyz :)
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It is the same guy. And I just thought he preferred communicating throughg text so I texted! And we are very busy people. I got used to the fact that he would text during down time or mid day to see how I was doing.