Hey people here's a question I'm hoping all of you will be able to answer. There's this guy I really really like and I want to ask him out - the problem he barely knows I exist. See its not that we both are unpopular but I met this guy a few times at friends parties and I began checking him out on a few social networking sites and he's like the guy I have always dreamed of! Earlier he had a girlfriend and so I decided to leave him alone but now she broke up with him! What do I do to get noticed by him?

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Originally Posted by boredwithlife

Hey people heres a question I'm hoping all of you will be able to answer. Theres this guy I really really like and I want to ask him out - the problem he barely knows I exist. See its not that we both are unpopular but I met this guy a few times at friends parties and I began checking him out on a few social networking sites and hes like the guy I have always dreamed of! Earlier he had a girlfriend and so I decided to leave him alone but now she broke up with him! What do I do to get noticed by him?

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Tell him what you just said here.

You noticed him , were intrigued , and would like to ask him out.
Tell him you waited until he was not going with anyone also. A show of morality is refreshing.

But don't get your expectations way up on him being a dream guy.
You know very little about him in all actuality. So be cautious he isn't a nightmare.

Guys usually love it when they are asked out, I think your chances of getting a date are good.

I have another problem OK so the guy likes me too in fact he kind of asked me out ! Here's the problem he has a few trust issues as his previous girlfriend cheated on him. He said he likes me but wants to get to know me. What if he gets to know me and doesn't like me? Please help

Before we get to the love, and romance with strangers, how about try the casual friends first. He has said he has issues to deal with so its clear not to rush into anything deep, and get your heart broken. That's doesn't mean force him to talk/text/phone every single day, but to tell the truth, just be friendly and get comfortable talking for 6 months or a year, with no pressure, and no high expectations, and then see how it goes. What's the hurry?

The last thing you want is to press a guy to hard for romance, especially since he told you he ain't ready for that, and you should understand his situation. Frankly, you should be doing other things with other people, and having your own fun without him, because he needs some healing time from his last adventure.

From your other questions you have your own recent adventure with love, and romance to get over, and its probably not wise to rebound to another relationship at this time any way.

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There was this guy whom I had a crush on for a really long time. And then one day when we met he kind of asked me out. He said he likes me but he's scared as his ex girlfriend had cheated on him. He also told my friend he was going to ask me out. Then suddenly one day he told me we can't be together. I can't understand this whole situation. Its not like there is another girl. How did he suddenly stop liking me?

It's very possible that he stopped liking you or maybe wasn't as into you as you thought in the first place.

Whatever his reasons are, he no longer wants to pursue a relationship with you. Even if he does start liking you again, do you really want to be with someone who flicks the switch on and off?

Maybe he no longer wants to be with u, yaa that happened to me ounce I just forgot about. You should forget about it and move on