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  • Feb 10, 2011, 06:05 PM
    rie_rie
    How do I get over my cheating boyfriend?
    About 2 months ago my boyfriend met a girl on omegle, she asked him to send her a topless photo and he agreed about a month later they started sexting and talking about which condom flavours they should use, or which sex positions and to finish it he said that if he had the chance to he would, I found the texts and his big alibi was 'it was a joke' which it was not. He turns it around all the time like its my fault, I'm still with him after a few breakups, but I'm not over it, and to top it off he's going to get all her friends numbers and I'm scared he'll do it again, please answer fast and help!
  • Feb 10, 2011, 06:20 PM
    talaniman

    You must want him pretty bad to take all that crap off him. How old are you? Most females would have kicked him to the curb. Why haven't you? Why do you keep breaking up and making up??

    Sooner or later you will get tired of this crap, and figure you deserve better.
  • Feb 10, 2011, 06:25 PM
    DoulaLC

    ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again.



    I agree with talaniman...

    How much are you going to put up with before you decide he just can't be trusted? Not only has he been having inappropriate conversations, he has tried to play it off as no big deal, made you to feel somehow responsible, and now plans to get more phone numbers!

    He obviously doesn't care about your feelings or being respectful to your relationship... so why are you still with him?
    It doesn't sound like he is ready to be in an exclusive relationship. You could probably guarantee he will do it again.

    Might be time to cut your losses, and allow yourself to be available to meet someone who will treat you how you want to be treated.
  • Feb 10, 2011, 10:00 PM
    BBKittyKat
    The obvious: this guy CANNOT be trusted.

    So u have two choices:
    1) Take the short term way out. Keep breaking up and patching back. It will feel good for 5 minutes and then u will feel like a total fool after that. If this happens often enough, u will be led to option 2. By then, it wouldn't be your choice. He would be the one calling off the final break up because he is sick of u and all the drama. All that putting up with his **** and nonsense will be for nothing.

    2) Break off all contact with this guy immediately. Use this website for tips on surviving a breakup. This will be a good long term solution. And guess what, u get to keep your dignity (well, whatever is left of it).

    Choose wisely!
  • Feb 11, 2011, 01:27 AM
    ken007nielsen
    You DO NOT get over a cheating boyfriend, you get rid of him. (and possible dump the body where it won't be found); last part was a joke...

    You NEVER EVER stay in a relationship with a cheating boyfriend, and it's obvious that he isn't going to stop..

    End cut and run!
  • Feb 11, 2011, 08:18 AM
    hidden123
    Unless you're fine with sharing him with other women and have no expectations - leave him. Stop feeding into his ego and just place the focus on yourself rather than him. Good Luck!

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