What measures can I take to avoid pregnancy after about 20 days from the unprotected sex?

You would have to determine whether conception has actually taken place (pregnancy is not automatic even with unprotected sex), and then, if pregnancy is confirmed, you would speak to a doctor about your option of abortion if that is something you would consider.

What if she misses her regular expected period(4th feb-expected)after sex of almost 20 days can I conform that she is pregnant?? If yes can we abort it? What is the safest measure? When is the minimum period for canceling it??

If they are available where you live, she can purchase a home pregnancy test. If not, she can see her doctor or a pregnancy center to have a test done there. If the result is negative, she can see about having a blood test done to check as well. If that is negative, it may be she is just going to be late with her period this cycle as can happen, especially if there is a great deal of stress over the possibility of being pregnant.

In the early weeks, medication would be used to terminate the pregnancy. She would most likely experience fairly severe cramping and some bleeding and have a follow-up visit with the doctor to confirm the pregnancy has ended.

Where you live will depend on how far into a pregnancy an abortion can be done, and whether it can be done at all, but the majority are done in the first 8 weeks.

In the future... be sure to use two forms of contraception if you want to decrease the chance of pregnancy and the worry over it. Remember, however, that it only lessens the possibility... no birth control is 100%, so if the chance of pregnancy is so worrisome, you should consider refraining from sex if either of you is not ready for a possible pregnancy.

Dear,
I am very very tensed as on 3rd MAy we didn't had sex but I had inserted my finger into her vagina after I had my ejaculation, I doubt something was on my finger as I had wiped it nicely but she was about to get periods in those days only as her last periods were on 2nd April and before we did she was getting symptoms of periods but after that she is not feeling anything, we truly love each other and we are planning for marriage after 2 years but unknowingly this happened, we are not getting whether she is pregnant or not, so how to confirm it and if anything as such what has to be done to avoid it, Please reply as soon as you can, we both are very tensed please reply soon :(

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Originally Posted by amaybose

Dear,
I am very very tensed as on 3rd MAy we didnt had sex but i had inserted my finger into her vagina after i had my ejaculation, i doubt something was on my finger as i had wiped it nicely but she was about to get periods in those days only as her last periods were on 2nd April and before we did she was getting symptoms of periods but after that she is not feeling anything, we truly love each other and we are planning for marriage after 2 years but unknowingly this happened, we are not getting whether she is pregnant or not, so how to confirm it and if anything as such what has to be done to avoid it, Please reply as soon as you can, we both are very tensed please reply soon :(

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It would be very unlikely for her to become pregnant with what you describe. It may be that her period is getting ready to start. Sometimes the symptoms of a period about to start can be similar to some of the symptoms in early pregnancy.

Wait a few more days, and if still no period, she could try a pregnancy test.

Hieee...
I am an user from india...
Me and my girlfriend had sex on 12th June... his last menstraul cycle was on 2nd June... (2012)...
She generally gets her menstual cycle within 28 days... she is missing nw... today is 30thjune... we are little bit worried...
We had used protection... bt we did intercourse twice within 1 hr... we used separate protetion both the tymes...
After 1st intercose I fingered her... I m little bit worried if some part of sperms have left in my hand... plz help me out...
How to know properly about pregnancy...

My girlfriend and I had unprotectected sex on 25 dec i.e. 21 days ago from today, the day we had sex was 20th from her period started, the pregnant test positive and her period lates for 10 days (from the last date of her period).. we don't want pregnancy right now so could you provide me the best way to terminate pregnancy...

Could anybody help me please