there's a movie about a young spanish couple raising 3-4 kids. The parents fight a lot as they try to establish a living for their kids while working on their dysfunctional relationship. The female actress could be compared to rosie perez, not sure about the male actor though. The film could be compared to a spike lee 'joint' but it isn't one of his. =/ help. Saw it once on hbo and since then haven't seen it since. =/