Me and my boyfriend live together sleep in the same bed we've been together for only 3 months so far but he tells me he loves me an he's never felt this way about someone before an that he's never had someone care about him like I do. He loves sex and he says he loves having sex with me but now all of sudden he doent even have sex with me I give him pleasure he loves it but I never get anything in return I thought mayb because I'm not on birth control yet but we have condoms so wuts the problem we go from having mad sex to him turning over an going to sleep an I lye in bed sexually deprived an frustrated then I feel ashamed for being mad over not having sex with my boyfriend like this is crazy I asked him if I was on punishment because he hasn't touched me in a week an make a funny comment to lighten the mood an he turns over and goes to sleep an I get no response. Someone help me pleassssssseeeee!! I'm going crazy...

Well first thing you need to stop is pleasuring him!! If things start going down road per say, let him pleasure you first!! If he refuses to take those moves, then kick him to the curb and move on and find a real man that knows what he is doing!

You really need to communicate this with him...

How old are you two?

Considering your realationship is new, you need to get a jump start here before it becomes a problem. By that I mean communication.

The way I see it, is if people/couples are having sex, then they should be able to communicate openly about it.

It all starts with communication.

I know I keep saying the word communication. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.

Here, let me say it once more, communication.

There, I think you got it.;)

Good Luck.

Three months is a pretty fast time to be moving in with this stranger, but have you tried talk together? I mean I just don't understand how you sleep with a guy you don't/can't talk to. And why are you pleasuring a guy who ain't pleasuring you? This may just be a preview of things to come.