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  • Feb 4, 2011, 02:19 PM
    yael22
    I don't feel safe at home and have got no were to go?
    I am 11 years old. My dad abusses me when my moms not home and makes it sound like its my fault. I don't feel safe at home and have know were to go. I try telling pepele but my mom always makes acuses so it sounds like I was just making things up. Ive tried telling doctors,teachers even my counsler but then they talk to my mom and I get in troble. I try running away but I've got no were to go. If I told the police my parents would kill me what do I do?
  • Feb 4, 2011, 02:37 PM
    liongal
    Girl you must go back and speak to either your teacher, nurse or the head of year/school... These people have a serious duty to take your allegations seriously and investigate. They cannot just overlook your disclouse on your mums word thet you are lying... Even if you were crying wolf they have a duty to investigate.

    Please go back and speak to someone, even if you have to go to a police statio local/council/district office, someone has to take you seriously. Call your coutry's childline as well. Look them up on the net.

    *** donot leave this!!

    God Bless
  • Feb 4, 2011, 02:41 PM
    redhed35

    What kind of abuse are you talking about?

    What do you consider abuse?
  • Feb 4, 2011, 02:52 PM
    yael22
    Comment on redhed35's post
    He hurts me physically and mentally
  • Feb 4, 2011, 03:03 PM
    redhed35

    He hits you.

    Have you shown your mom the marks? What did she say?
  • Feb 16, 2011, 06:41 PM
    yael22
    Comment on redhed35's post
    When I do she thinks I'm lying.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:30 PM
    ITstudent2006

    Your mom is obviously protecting your father. You need to do more to put yourself in a situation that is safe for you and anyone else involved. This needs to be handled immediately and with the utmost sense of urgency to stop your father from continuing this abuse.

    I recommend, telling your Principal. Tell them you won't go home until something is done about it. Sit in his/her office and tell them "my dad abuses me and I have tried telling people but no one will listen. I am not leaving this office until something is done about it." You need to make a stand and force them to take a more appropriate stance on this very delicate matter.

    I wish you the best of luck and only wish I could help you more than just this website.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 08:06 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    So you tell your teachers and show them the marks

    You tell the police, ( no they will not really kill you)
  • Jul 9, 2011, 05:51 PM
    lexiPriest
    Explain to any trusted adult that you can think of about what's going on, and I recommend the police. You're mom will not killvyou when he gets sent to jail, because then she'll realize what a terrible man he is. And your father will not kill you, because he'll be in jail. Tell the police. NOW.

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