Hello I'm 20 years old an I liked a girl from my neighbouring state very much, she is beautiful and she is 18 years old she said that she liked me very much . I met her on net and then I went to meet in real . After some time in jan she found some interest in me but in feb after valentines day she tried to drive me away from her. She told me that she has a boyfriend and dats her step cousin after that she never came with her id in Yahoo messenger but came in desguise with some other ids and gave me hints about her relationship with her cousin indirectly she told me she had sex with him but she an her cousins say she didn't do any thing but da message that what she wanted to give is that she had oral sex and only sex in they had a threesome with neighbour an her maid and her cousin is it possible to found out If a girl is virgin in or help.

Dude! Sounds like a really messed up girl! Stay away from her unless your in to that kind of stuff!

First you are 20, and "dat" is not a word, and if this is how you talk, and chat on line no wonder they wish to break up with you.

Next if she had sex with someone she is not a virgin and no you can tell if she tells you.

Most internet dating does not work, you will most likely have to chat and meet dozens of people before even a chance of one will work, and add to that a distance between it is almost impossible, Some do work,

So you meet a girl, it did not work out, you move on. Esp ones that are playing games acting like different people and so on.

What you need to find out is why your caring? I mean clearly she's not good for you. First of all, when u meet someone online you don't know if they really are who they say. Heck they could be a 50 year old girl or guy wanting to cyber. Or to rape someone. MY GOD, your lucky that this didn't happen. She is a very mean, and selfish person. She has lied to you and made you a pawn in her game. Sounds like she just want's to have sex with everyone and doesn' care whom she hurt's. She may just have wanted to cheat on her b/f also. You really shouldn't let it bug you. You don't know her, she could be trouble and don't have sex with her she may have STD's you don't know. Meet a girl from where you live personally. Get to know her, and when you do it will be awesome. You don't need some rude, selfish girl to screw your life up.