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  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:21 PM
    BELLA_JANDO
    Im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and I'm pregnant!!
    Hello,first ov all we live in California and we want to get marry in las vegas Nevada,I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 years and I'm pregnant,what shuld I do?would he get into any trouble here at California after we get marry?or what could happen with both ov us and our baby dats on da way?
  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:30 PM
    ITstudent2006

    1. Stop using all caps.
    2. Learn to spell.
    3. Learn to use the space bar.

    Age of consent in CA is 18

    (c) Any person who engages in an act of unlawful sexual
    Intercourse with a minor who is more than three years younger than
    The perpetrator is guilty of either a misdemeanor or a felony, and
    Shall be punished by imprisonment in a county jail not exceeding one
    Year, or by imprisonment in the state prison.

    (A) An adult who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse
    With a minor less than two years younger than the adult is liable for
    A civil penalty not to exceed two thousand dollars ($2,000).
    (B) An adult who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse
    With a minor at least two years younger than the adult is liable for
    A civil penalty not to exceed five thousand dollars ($5,000).
    (C) An adult who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse
    With a minor at least three years younger than the adult is liable
    For a civil penalty not to exceed ten thousand dollars ($10,000).
    (D) An adult over the age of 21 years who engages in an act of
    Unlawful sexual intercourse with a minor under 16 years of age is
    Liable for a civil penalty not to exceed twenty-five thousand dollars
    ($25,000).

    READ THIS
  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:36 PM
    talaniman

    Have you told your parents yet? What do they say?
  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:41 PM
    BELLA_JANDO
    Comment on talaniman's post
    Yes they know but we want to get marry and im yunger than him and my bf's 22 years ov old
  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:46 PM
    talaniman

    Stop with the caps please or be deleted.

    I believe you need their permission, in writing, and in person.
  • Feb 1, 2011, 08:47 PM
    ITstudent2006

    This is how it should look.
    Yes, they know but we want to get married. I'm younger then him though. My boyfriend is 22 yrs old.

    You realize he can get in serious trouble for this right?
  • Feb 1, 2011, 09:01 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Your parents will need to sign for you to be married, and no you can't run off to Vegas and get married, your parents could have it voided and even get him arrested for kidnapping if he took you away without their permission.

    Next they can also call the police and go to the DA to charge him with rape since you are under the age of consent.
  • Feb 2, 2011, 03:39 PM
    MrsLB
    This is not a good situation as you are under the California age of consent. What you need to focus on now is your child on the way. If you keep the child & do not put it up for adoption, you have a whole lot of new responsibilities coming your way. It is not easy or fun to be a teen mother.
  • Feb 3, 2011, 03:18 PM
    BELLA_JANDO
    I already have permittion of my parents and they approve me to get marry with him but what I'm saying is that would he still get in any trouble? WE LIVE TOGETHER ALREADY BUT WEN WANT TO GET MARRY CUZ IM PREGNANT I MIGHT BE LIKE 2 OR 3 WEEKS ALREADY!
  • Feb 3, 2011, 03:59 PM
    ScottGem

    It depends on your location. Prosecutors take a dim view of pedophiles and child molesters. And, if it comes out that you are pregnant, they might take action. But if you have your parent's permission to marry (shakes head at that), then I suggest you get married in CA right away. Don't go out of state for the wedding. You can go to Vegas for the honeymoon if you want.

    P.S. I predict the marriage ends after 2 years or less.

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