My first g/f just dumped me and I asked her for a reason and she said she got tired of being in a relation and didn't really like me anymore, I almost started 2 cry, she really wanted 2 dump me and I have 2 say she sounded happy after she did, she even said HAHA and I felt so sad and pissed, she basically didn't want to be with me for the last week or 2 and was really just using me I really liked her and wanted to be with her and she didn't want to be with me and she asked if I wanted to be good friends and I really don't, I really don't even want 2 ever c her again, what should I do when I c her again?

She sounds extremely immature. May I ask if she is quite young, she certainly sounds it? No matter what she is, she is not capable of returning the same feelings as you have. She is not mature enough to be in a relationship. You sound like a sweet, caring young man. You could do better than this girl, even if you think you can't. Don't underestimate yourself and stand tall the next time you see her. It sounds like she did you a favour, there are plenty of nice women out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Next time you see her, just smile, look happy and walk away!

Get stuck in to some hobbies and enjoy being free and single for a while. There is plenty of time for relationships and the right one will come along when the time is right. You might have to go through quite a few before you get to the one you are meant to be with. That is not just for you, that speaks for many people and you are very lucky if you meet the right match first time around>>very lucky.

I have read your other posts and just want to know if this is the same female who went to a dance at another school, and had the myspace pictures you hated?

Having read your other threads now, and assuming this is the same girl, this reinforces what I have said about her. Too immature for a relationship and obviously this is down to her age. You are perhaps not ready for a relationship either, I am not suggesting that you are immature but that you are rather young for this kind of thing and there is plenty of time for relationships.

I would suggest getting stuck into your studies at school.. Sounds boring but it is really important. Have fun being single and spend a few years finding out who you are and what life has to offer. This journey will continue well into your 20's and you will see that the world is a big place, full of choices and opportunity.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I have read your other posts and just want to know if this is the same female who went to a dance at another school, and had the myspace pictures you hated?

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Yeah it is the same girl

If she laughed at you then it just proved what a immature and low piece of work she is.
Be happy your not with such a person and move on with life and be happy.

Enjoy your life and be positive and things will improve more quick than you think!

Unfortunately your situation is not uncommon. If and when you see her again, appear really happy (fake it if you have to) and simply say "Hi, how are you?" in a friendly but hurried tone of voice. Then keep right on going, as you are busy and have things to do with your life, so you don't have time to think or obsess about her.