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All the crying g/f threads were merged
We were watching the weather last night and we heard there was a tornado heading towards our state which is Ohio and we live in a trailer and she sat down and started crying because she's scared of tornados and she's afraid she might loose me and her cousin she can't stop thinking about it I keep telling her were not going to get it but she won't listen to me. She's really scared.
Tell her that Tornados often redirect or even disperse before they can cause large amounts of damage to certain areas. Just because the tornado is in the state doesn't mean that it's anywhere near you. Also, if there are severe tornado warnings for you area then there are usually places people can go and wait for the storm to pass without harm.
Me and her have been together for 2 years. We started dating back in September of 2009 and her hero Patrick Swayze died that same time and she's really upset and won't stop crying about it every time we watch one of his movies she cries and yesterday we heard Where Were You [ When the world stopped turning ] by Alan Jackson that song makes her think of him she cries every time she here's it.
If she just cries when she sees or hears him, then I wouldn't try to 'make' her stop.
Sometimes people need that sort of trigger to get emotions out, and it's not a bad thing.
If she seeks him out in order to keep crying, a real obsession, hold her in your arms and ask her to talk about what her feelings are at that moment. Maybe there's some connection in her life. Maybe even she isn't sure what it is, so be patient and just listen.
He touched many many people, men and women, because he wasn't a typical Hollywood glamorous type.
She's crying because she loves me too much and she's scared for me .
Dude, just put your arm around her, and tell her it will be okay, or simply hug her, and say nothing. She is a crier, that's what she does. Can't change it, or stop it!
This was a post about a girlfriend crying over the death of Patrick Swayze. How did it change to tornados without any notation of it being done?
She was crying over tornados in the first post.Quote:
Originally Posted by joypulv
She can't help it if she's got problems and she loves me a lot and she wants me to be there for her. And I love her.
There was no mention of tornados, no comment by OP under the question (as there is now sometimes and sometimes not) and the Patrick Swayze part was much longer.
I am not imagining this.
This site can be very buggy. It's as bad as Scrabble on Facebook.
Then its simple, just relax and support her.
Joy, this is the first post on this thread. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by dasycarlsgirl
Maybe I can help here as this often happens when threads are merged, and edited into one. We seldom go back when there have been changes, like merging threads, and we may well miss a few things.
Last night we were watching a movie called Van Helsing its her favorite movie we've watched it 100 times and she loves it but last night she stared crying.
You don't make her stop crying... Maybe she just really loves the movie and gets emotionally involved? Maybe something else was bothering her during the movie? I'm not understanding what the deal is here. Is she normally emotional? Does she cry a lot for no reason? Only when she watched the movie? Maybe that's just how she expresses emotion?
How abouuuuut you, I don't know, ask her what's wrong? Offer comfort and support to what ever her answer may be. It may be no big deal, or there may be more serious underlying issues that are bothering her. And no matter how small the issue, don't tell her to just suck it up and stop crying unless you want to be swiftly kicked out the door! Small issues perceived to some can be very emotional issues to others. Be sensitive and let the girl cry when she needs to!
Oh yeah she cries all the time .
Well if she cries all the time then something is obviously on her mind a lot. It's time to talk to her and find out what's causing her to be so upset. Sometimes its hard for some to open up to others without some encouragement. However, don't make her feel put on the spot and forced to spit out an answer. It may take time for her to open up, so let her know that you're there for her and support her in the meantime. She will talk when she's ready as long as she knows you're willing to listen.
I'm 17 my girlfriend is 18 I really love her but she's afraid to have sex . I asked her if she wanted to last night but she didn't want to . She's afraid it would hurt her.
She got into a fight with her cousin yesterday morning and then she came home from school crying. I want to make her feel better . She won't tell me what's wrong .
How old are the two of you? Our answers may be different according to your age.
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