How do I tell my dad about a long distance relationship?
I have known this guy for over a year and he lives 8 hours away, which is in Louisiana. Him and his family come to Texas nearly every month and are going to move here in about 2 years. They are in the process of building a house here. I am turning 16 in about 20 days and my dad's rules have always been "no dating util you're 16". My secret boyfriend is 17 and a senior and plans on going to college for two years and then moving here. Which by then I will be graduating high school at the same time and we plan on moving in soon after that, if my dad likes it or not(I am not too young to know what I want to do with my life either). I have had the help of my sister, friends, and his parents to be able to SECRETLY see him for the previous 14 months. My dad is SUPPPPPERRRRR strict and gets mad over really little and stupid things. Me and everyone else that knows about this is trying to think of some way to tell my father about him living in Louisiana. PLEASE give any advise possible. Also just coming out and saying "He lives in Louisiana isn't an option"
Comment on califdadof3's post
As you read the extra info I have already said that I've secretly been seeing him for over a year. Meaning I HAVE met him and we have hung out A LOT.
Comment on love_1235's post
My main problem is telling him that he lives in Louisiana. My dad is so strict that I'm terrified to tell him.
Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
This is not helpful to me. You are not understanding the situation. My dad is EXTREMELY strict. Thanks for you attempt of helping me but your rude approach is not appreciated.
Comment on Wondergirl's post
I live in Texas and my dad has plenty of guns. I don't believe my boyfriend would like to be shot. Thank you for your rude opinion.