I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says I don't give him confidience because I don't scream when we have sex, but I mean I'm not a screamer or it's just not making me scream. He also has a problem because I don't have an orgasm. I have never had one. Is that common or is something wrong? Please help me

Well, I am not a shouter either but well, they like to know that their doing the job right. Maybe make some sounds or talk to him sexy, that might make him feel better, that is of course if you want to. Secondly, you have never had an orgasm? Foreplay or oral sex or maybe if your on top of him that usually stimulates it but it takes some women more then 20 minutes to get aroused and others have a wave of orgasms. Everyone is different you don't need to be hard on yourself. You will know if you are having an orgasm and it's a wonderful feeling. How long have you been with your boyfriend?