My boyfriend lied and I'm really hurt
Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend 13 months. Well from August to November he would try to dump me, tell me "Im falling out of love with you." He even did this the day before my 21st birthday, then on my birthday he forgot to tell me happy birthday. Well I went to a football game with my dad and He told me he was going to hookah with the guys. Well he called me the next morning and was telling me about his night and was really weird about it. Well me being the stupid one I believed him. Then I found out two weeks later from a girlfriend of one of his friends they went to a strip club. When I approached him about it he was a complete *** about it and was like "yeah i went so what?!" well then two months later I find out the whole truth. He got a topless lap dance and grabbed her tits. All while trying to dump me and tell me "I'm falling out of love with you". I was trying really really hard to make things right during September to November. Well I feel stupid because when I found out the whole truth I was at glamour shots doing a sexy photo shoot for him for xmas. I don't feel sexy anymore. I'm not fat either. I'm 5'3 130. So, I don't know what to do. I'm so hurt and angry. He watched me cry and felt terrible but told me he doesn't regret it and that he enjoyed the lap dance. He told me he didn't realize how much I loved him and how he wants to be my hubby and just keeps apologizing but you cannot convince any human against themselves, even if they hurt others. So please give me your opinions on what y'all would do?
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He wasn't honest at all about the strip club. I found out by one of his friends girlfriends.