I have NO idea if I'm straight bisexual or a lesbian. I am 13 years old. I don't think I've ever really liked a guy before except when I was really little sooo it doesn't really matter. I think I might like a girl at my school but I'm not sure... I had a dream a few nights ago that I was going to have sex with a girl (not the girl that I think I like but this girl just happens to be bi). This was really weird because its never happened before and I'm not like... dirty or screwed up like that. I don't know where that came from.

Dreams can have many meanings. It could just mean your accepting of the situation but it doesn't mean you have to live it out. What if you had a dream you killed someone because you were mad? Would you still be wanting to carry it out? I don't think so. Dreams are a way for our minds to absorb and file away the days experiences. So really I wouldn't focus on it too much and just let things be until later.

You don't have to decide right now at all if you are lesbian, bisexual, or even straight. You have your whole life to figure that out. Feelings are just that, feelings. You don't have to label yourself as anything. If you like a girl it doesn't make you a lesbian, and if you date a girl it doesn't make you a lesbian. It makes you a girl who has dated a girl. Throughout your teen years you may find you have crushes on just boys, just girls, or both. Give it some time, and as hard as it is not stress about it- don't!