Please Help! I’m 21, Female . I’ve been sexually active since I was 16. I’ve never had an orgasm. Not by myself not with a guy. I’ve never had one! I’m not kidding! Help!
I’m not that in to self satisfaction. I just can’t get excited by myself.
I’m with a guy right now. He’s very special , In fact , He’s the one. I want him to give me my first.
Help ! What do I do to Orgasm with him? Help me ! I can’t believe I’m missing out on the ultimate sexual experience. I just can’t stand !
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Well, maybe your body is not ready right now to deal with it! You are worrying about having orgasm. Some women don't have their first around 30-40! It can be so powerful you mind and body can't take it! When the time is right, it can come your way lise a special prize that bring tears to your eyes.

As a result to that, If you and your boyfriend can use toys together!! The bullet is wonderful for two!!

My advice would be to engage is lots of foreplay, maybe even starting in the morning with a phone call and lasting through out the day with calls or e-mails continuing into the evening with a shower and a couple of glasses of something like "Cold Duck" and then the cuddling and fondling and deep kissing and going from there with anything that each of you enjoy.

Hey!
I have not had an orgasm with my boyfriend yet, but I can by myself, it is very rare that I chick will get an orgasm with a guy, I just about never happens, do you enjoy sex, if not then that could be why, but as you say if he is the one, then you should be enjoying it, make sure you tell your boyfriend exactly what you like... if you don't then you will not get one unless you absolutely love what they are doing, and also if you have not had one and you really want one, try not to think about it too much when you are having sex etc. or it will not happen because you are concentrating on it. Just let it happen without worrying if I it will or not.

Kitty xxx

Thanks for the advance Guys. To summer ;Yes ,Of course I Love sex with my man! I Just feel like I'm missing something so wonderful. But , if you all think I got time. I Guess I'll Just have to wait. Thanks all!