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  • Jan 22, 2011, 01:32 PM
    love_1235
    He is nothing he use to be
    I love my boy friend very much.
    We have been together fro awhile now.
    But we do have some problams,
    He tells me if I ever get pregnant that I need to get an abortion, However, I wouldn't want to get one, and he seys it like it is nothing.
    He once was texting this girl, I asked him about it he said "no" and I said "are you shue?" and he said "yeah, im sure" Later I found out he lied to my face about that.
    I just don't feel like he cares anymore.
    But it is truly hard because I love him.
  • Jan 22, 2011, 01:36 PM
    Alty

    It sounds like the two of you want different things.

    How old are you? How old is he?

    I would guess that you're both in your teens. If so, I can understand why he's not ready for a baby. Of course, since the two of you are having sex he has to expect that pregnancy is always a possibility. If the two of you can't agree about what you would do if a pregnancy occurred than you really shouldn't be having sex.

    You two need to talk to each other. Communication is key in any relationship if it's to last. If you feel strongly about something than you have to tell him. If the two of you can't agree or reach a compromise on serious issues than I would really start to question if this relationship is the best idea.

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