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  • Jan 21, 2011, 12:05 PM
    SsK0712
    Me & my girlfriend just broke up for less than a month, should I wish her happy anniversary?
  • Jan 21, 2011, 12:21 PM
    redhed35

    no.

    Your broken up.

    There is no reason to contact her, moving on is hard, and sometimes we try and justify making contact, when really it's the last thing that's good for us or what the other person wants.

    Going no contact will help you heal,making contact will only serve to upset and confuse you.
  • Jan 21, 2011, 12:24 PM
    SsK0712
    Comment on redhed35's post
    Although we have broken up, but still there's a chance of us getting back. Last time I use to forget about our anniversary, and she has always scolded me for forgetting. Should I at least wish her to let her know I remember?
  • Jan 21, 2011, 12:29 PM
    redhed35

    No, your broken up.

    The time to remember the anniversarys is when your together,but your not.

    You broke up for a reason.

    My advice is to start no contact and disappear from her life, start getting on with yours.

    Se your friends your family,hit the gym,work,school, where ever or whatever you do each day.

    Breakups are hard,it takes time to recover and too see the bigger picture.
  • Jan 21, 2011, 01:23 PM
    talaniman

    I wouldn't, let her scold you. Why did you break up? How old are you both?
  • Jan 21, 2011, 02:12 PM
    SsK0712
    Comment on talaniman's post
    We broke up because for the past month I have been busy and I kind of neglected her. At that moment she needed me and I wasn't there for her and she felt kind of disappointed. I am 21 and she's 22...
  • Jan 21, 2011, 02:36 PM
    answerme_tender

    I would have to agree with Tal and Red--NO, do not wish her happy anniversary. When there is NO RELATIONSHIP, there is NO HAPPY anniversary!! There is nothing but hurt and lonliness!!

    Just wishing her happy anniversary now, is NOT going to make up to her when you weren't there for her. It's a mute point!!
    But, with all that said, you are still going to do what you want, and if you do decide to contact, DO NOT wish her happy anniversay---just email her a short sentence saying that you are thinking of her--NOTHING MORE. Otherwise just stay with NO CONTACT.

    Take care

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