Order stipulating date to remove belongings
3 years ago I was granted a PFA (that is still in effect) in the order it was written that my ex was evicted and a date was put in the order for my ex to retrieve personal belongings with the Constable. My ex never came the order states "on x/xx/xxxx date defendant may enter the residence to obtain personal belongings" and stipulates "retrieval of belongings shall be done by 5:00 PM". My ex never came to get the belongings. I have been trying pro-se for the last year to obtain a no fault divorce (in PA) but to no avail as delivery of certified mail was not accepted etc. Now out of nowhere my ex finally hires a lawyer and files for "special relief" to obtain belongings. Of course the list of things included some on mine that I inherited and the children's belongings as well, but I am arguing that. However my ex states that he tried to contact me several times to get his things (he has a no contact PFA) this is false. His attorney says that I can not say he "did not follow an order" by not coming to get his things by the date specified in the order. It was agreed in court that any furniture things like that which he owned and I was allowing he could take at that time. Is he in violation for not coming by that date? Do I have any recourse since I filed for the divorce a year ago and he is just responding to it now (a copy of the petition he was attached as evidence to his petition for his property". I am not denying his right to his things, I am opposing some of them, and I just want the divorce done (it was denied because the court said he was not served properly). We have no assets, no bank accounts, I don't want any pension or anything just the divorce as we have been separated 3 years. The marital house is up for sheriff sale as I could not afford it and he did not contribute in 3 years... I checked my credit report and the only debt we have together is the house.