During our relationship,things went smoothly.apart from the occasional arguments on each others mistakes,we would be all right after that.then came the day I offended her so badly up till now she hasn't stopped looking back at it.its been almost a year since she broke up with me but I'm still deeply in love with this girl.she means more than anything else in the world to me.now she ignores me.I have been blaming myself for my mistakes,tried making up to her and still faithful to this day.but she still wouldn't give me a chance to redeem myself.what should I do?when she finally talked to me,I asked what I had to do and she said she only saw me as a friend and nothing more.obviously she doesn't have feelings for me.I can't concentrate on anything else when I think about anything related to her.what should I do?

What did you do that made her so angry that she cannot forgive you?

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What to do when she doesn't have feelings anymore

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You build a life without her in it, and stop being faithful to what is now a memory, and a false, unrealistic hope of getting her back. That will help you get UNSTUCK from someone who is not as stuck on you.

You need to move on. Seems like she's just not been able to forgive and forget.

Next time you find a new girl, just remember that cheating can ruin things forever.

I didn't cheat on her

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Called her names.. get angry with things.. get jealous..

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To me,love means a lifetime.I know I love her that's why I can't get myself unstuck..

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called her names..get angry with things..get jealous..

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to me,love means a lifetime.i know i love her thats why i can't get myself unstuck..

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Name calling and jealousy will destroy any good feelings, and is not love, so now that her feelings have changed for you, you may as well learn from your mistakes, and get UNSTUCK, and move on!

But what if I can get her back??

What makes you think that? Is that what she said?

I believe that God had set this for me.the way I met her the works everything.

Max,

Perhaps God is making this a wake up call to you. Just because you get angry with someone doesn't give you the RIGHT to call them names or yell at them.

Im not saying that raising our voice when get mad isn't something we all do at some point, but when you allow yourself to get nasty to someone whom you love, then you have over stepped your boundaries!!

I don't know if this young lady will give you another chance. But take this time to make sure you never get to that type of ugliness again. If you feel that you do have an anger issue, talk to your parents and see what you can do together to learn to control it. Perhaps talk to your minister.

Take care

I was angry because of things she did to hurt me.. for example scheduled dates cancelled,ignoring me.
Its not an angry issue.