I have been trying to access my netgear to retreave my passwaord, connect to wireless, and to setup home wireless network. What should I do

If nothing is using the router now, look for a reset button on it and press it (with power on) and hold for like 15 seconds. Now it is reset to factory fresh condition. Go to Netgear's website and look for installation instructions for that exact model and you'll be good to go!

If the router is in use already, then resetting this way will mean you'll have to re setup the computers currently using it. Not a big deal though.

Best of luck,
WallyH