Why is my boyfriend not wanting sex with me is it because I am fat?

How old are you both?

I am 31 and he is 31. We r getting married on 9/7/2011

Have you asked him?

I am 31 and he is 31. We r getting married 9/7/2011

Yes but he said I am nt fat and he loves me how I am

We r both 31

So... why would you think that is why?

What DOES he say when you ask why you're not having sex?

If your where fat when you got together then its prob. Something else

He just say he does nt want it he says he likes to leave it so when we do have sex that I will enjoy it

So do you not enjoy it most of the time, or what?

Yes I love it all the time

You why can't you take his answer for what it is?. the less you have sex the MORE you will enjoy it... he knows what he's talking about.plus he's trying to love you for you.and if you have to ask no sex because of your weight then maybe there's the prob... your insecurities.ya'll going to be getting married... I think he have proven to you that he loves you by wanting to marry you.if he loves you then he don't care about your weight.seems like YOU are the one always wanting sex... there's more to a relationship than just sex you know.

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Have the pair of you ever done it before??