I am 15 years old, When I was elven or twelve my couison who was 3-4 years old bit me. And some how I got an erection, I feel really bad and I can't talk to my friends about it

What should I do?

Your 15... you don't even NEED a reason for that to happen. Its likely not even related.

What do you mean?

THe little head has a mind of its own at that age... eventually the big head learns to control it.

Are you trying to say that I'm stupid for feeling guility over something like this or I deserve to feel guility about something like this

YOu are 15... your hormones are all over the place. THe smell of french fries might be all it takes... in a few years its not going to be happening like it is now. All guys go through this stage at your age.

After a bit of thought here is some advice... that WILL help. I remember all too clearly having to deal with this and having to walk between classes.

Easiest way to deal with it is to prevent it in the first place

Wear jocky shorts (tighty whities)... not boxers, tuck it downward... not upward.

Those two things combined can prevent the embarrassing situation from happening most of the time. Eventually your hormones stop their wild swings and stabilize and you get better control of your body and its functions... then it will be far less of an issue. But you have a few more years yet.

OK I will try that thanks

Getting an erection for any or no reason is common for teens and pre teens.

Please there is no reason for any guilt for having an erection. Is there some teaching that is making you feel that way

Well I only feel like this because I don't like the idea of me getting the erection from a child biteing my finger, And I also feel like this because you know with kids everyone thinks their cute and stuff and you play with them and stuff, Well when I was playing with her that's when she bit me and I keep judeing myself because I think well was I playing with her because I felt attracted or something and it was so long ago I can't remember if I was just playing with her or I was playing with her because I felt like that.

But I do remmeber as soon as I got the erection I called my bamps I didn't tell him what happened but I called him so he would notice and tell me if I did something wrong or not

I can understand why you feel that way... but I bet like I said earlier... its likely not as related as you may feel it is at this moment. And just happened to be a coincidence.

Well I hope your right :(, But the good thing is this sort of thing does not happen anymore so it might have just been the puberty thing

Now.. if this happened at 25, we got a whole different thing going on... if you understand what I mean.

Let me quote this another way...

You never said you had any of the feelings you might feel towards that girl in your english class for example... THAT would indicate an issue... without that issue I think its only an awkward coincidence.

What do you mean about your example? Can you explain it a little more

You wasn't turned on by the little girl, like you might be by a girl your age in your class.

IF you had THAT feeling, along with the stiffy... then there is a problem.

My understanding is that you didn't.

Well I can't remember if I had the erection before playing with her or after, But I know I called my bamps when I got the erection so chances are I did not have the erection until she bit me

So if that is the case then that's normal right?

Or not?

At your age they can pop up in the middle of a math test. The fact you didn't have any "urges" towards the little ones means you aren't nuts... and that its just an embarrassing case of coincidence.

That's all right then, Thanks for all your support I really apreshate it I needed somebody to talk to