Hey I have know my boyfriend for about 8yrs. Been dating on and off for awhile but kind of regular the last few years. Before he was always very careful about using protection before we even started fooling around he would make sure we had one but now he doesn't he's clean and I'm clean and I know I should just ask him why now he isn't so worried about it but I was just looking for other opions. Thanks

We can guess all day long but he's the only one that really knows.

You mentioned you were on and off before, and now are dating regularly. Maybe he was sleeping around with more than just you before, and now is being exclusive with you?

I agree with JC.
But remember, if you want him to wear a condom, he either puts it on, or tucks it back in.

Are you positive he's clean? If you've been on again off again than it's not a guarantee that he's clean.

Are you using another form of birth control? If not, you do know that pregnancy is a very big possibility.

Bottom line, it's your body. If you want him to wear a condom he either does, or he doesn't get sex. The ball is in your court. ;)

You don't KNOW anything... you only THINK it. HIV can have an incubation period that excedes 5 years.

Between Herpes, Aids, HPV... all of which have no cure. You have to consider the treatible ones... and then there is Pregnancy... even with the pill youcan still get knocked up... then how fast is he going to exit stage left?

Like the others said... there is no wedding ring on both your finger and his... Little Johhny doesn't get to go out and play until he puts his raincoat on.

Make him wear a condom! There is no ands, ifs, or buts on that. It's your health and your future that's in his hands every time you have unprotected sex.