How do I get over this feeling?
I feel so guilty about feeling like this. But I just can't help it. My boyfriend and I have an amazing loving relationship.. Probably the best one I have ever been in. Plus we are just about to move in together. The only problem is I get this bad feeling when he's out with his friends, And I don't know if it's because of my past ( ex's have cheated, lied etc) But I just hate it!
He's going away with his friends for the weekend a few weeks from now and I just don't want him to. Although he's been away before and I've been fine but he's going to a party where I know what the crowd is like and I feel like he could be put in a situation where something could happen especially as his friends are single/ alcohol etc.
However he has assured me that he would never do anything, he loves me a lot.. But I still get this feeling and I can't help it? He says I have to trust him and I have to let him spend time with the people he loves which is fine. I do trust him although I don't see why he has to go away for the whole weekend especially to this party. I know I'm being immature and in the long term I'll have to get over it if I want us to work. But how do I do that??