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  • Jan 10, 2011, 12:23 PM
    alexis18
    Pregnancy
    Hey,
    My name is Alexis I'm 18 years old I have a serious question
    Me and me ex boyfriend had unprotected sex two times in one night he came in me both times I was getting really worried if I got pregnant I have a 32 day cycle my last period was on Dec,25,10 I just looked up my fertile window it said I'm fertile on the 9-14 we did it on the 7th my cervix wasn't open then but do u think it could have gotten in anyway... I woke up yesterday morning with a crazy feeling like I was bleeding but when I checked it was a white creamy substance could have I gotten pregnant? Help I'm really worried and when could I take a test
  • Jan 10, 2011, 12:28 PM
    Wondergirl

    Please use punctuation. Your post is hard to read without it.

    You said, "my cervix wasn't open." How do you know if it's open or not?

    Yes, you can be pregnant. Any time you have unprotected sex (and even protected) -- therefore, any time you have sex -- there's a chance you will get pregnant.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 02:09 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes, you had sex, so you could be pregnant. And since it was unprotected it has a higher chance.

    I will only assume you wanted to , since you used no protection at all. Good luck
  • Jan 10, 2011, 02:32 PM
    DoulaLC

    If you were indeed fertile around the 9th through the 14th, pregnancy from sex on the 7th could be possible since your body would be preparing for ovulation usually several days prior to actually releasing an egg. In the conditions during this preparation time, many sperm will survive for about 2-3 days, some perhaps longer, waiting for the egg.

    Your ovulation could be off a bit either earlier or later than the norm as well. This is why there is no 100% safe time in avoiding pregnancy, only some that are more safe or less safe.

    See what happens when your period is due for this month. Some tests will give you an accurate result a few days prior, but many women will find they are more accurate if you are actually late.

    Obviously, if you are not wanting to become pregnant, use birth control every single time to decrease the odds regardless of where in your cycle you might be. Keep in mind, however, that even with birth control, there is no guarantee a surprise pregnancy won't occur.

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