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  • Jan 10, 2011, 07:58 AM
    kristinka323
    Trying for baby
    Is it posible to become pregnant, if last PMS on 12/26/10... me and my huby had unprotected sex (dogy style)on the 7th... but after 30min. He gave me finger orgasm... is there a chance that I can still become pregnant?? Please help!!
  • Jan 10, 2011, 08:49 AM
    joypulv
    Of course. What part of all that did you think might exempt you from getting pregnant?
  • Jan 10, 2011, 09:09 AM
    kristinka323
    Well sense after I had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible??
  • Jan 10, 2011, 09:11 AM
    kristinka323
    Comment on joypulv's post
    Well sense after I had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible??
  • Jan 10, 2011, 09:34 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristinka323 View Post
    Well sence after i had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible???

    Why would you think that an orgasm forces out sperm? Plenty of sperm were inside you and traveling toward an egg.

    Having an orgasm is not a sperm-flushing method.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 09:47 AM
    jmjoseph

    Are you trying to get pregnant?
  • Jan 10, 2011, 09:53 AM
    kristinka323
    YES... Very much!! But I had abortion in May of 2009... and never had unprotected sex till now... and this time I think I'm ready for it...
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:00 AM
    jmjoseph

    I think you should try to learn more about what increases, and decreases, the chances of getting pregnant.

    This is a good site:Tips on Getting Pregnant

    Good luck.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:06 AM
    kristinka323
    The problem is that my huby does not want a baby yet, so he is always protecting... I had an argument with him on the 2nd and no sex until the 7th... that's when we made up and he didn't have chance to pull out... he came like in 5 sec... I don't think that I will get a socond chance like this, unless we fight again(LOL)
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:10 AM
    excon

    Hello k:

    It's never a good idea to TRAP your husband. See if you can work it out. That's how GOOD marriages last.

    excon
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:10 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristinka323 View Post
    the problem is that my huby does not whant a baby yet, so he is always protecting...

    So you are going to SURPRISE him with a pregnancy? Not a good thing to do.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:17 AM
    kristinka323
    No not really, he always asks me if I want too, and I keep saing 'NO' because we live in different states... And now that I moved... I like to start family, but I don't want him to know.His Birthday is coming up... he always askes me if he should pull out and I keep saing YES... but if I do become pregnant he will love it... I just don't know how to tell him!!
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:22 AM
    jmjoseph

    I work with a guy who was put in the same position, a "surprise pregancy". He wouldn't even touch his own daughter for the first year of her life. He's a jerk by nature, and a worst case scenario, but it happens. It almost ruined his marriage, because he felt tricked.

    Think about it. Talk and listen to him.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:22 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristinka323 View Post
    the problem is that my huby does not want a baby yet, so he is always protecting

    Quote:

    I like to start family, but I don't want him to know.
    Quote:

    but if I do become pregnant he will love it
    What's the REAL story on what he wants?
    Quote:

    we live in different states
    Why? Are you really married?
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:30 AM
    kristinka323
    Yes we are married for 4 years... business... I just moved in with him...
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:32 AM
    Wondergirl

    So he doesn't want a baby and makes an effort to use protection, but you are sure he will love it if you get pregnant, so you do your best to sneak in unprotected sex whenever you can?
  • Jan 10, 2011, 10:53 AM
    kristinka323
    It's a long story... Plus that was not my question!! But thanks for your help WONDERGIRL :))
  • Jan 10, 2011, 12:29 PM
    joypulv
    So you 'think' you are ready now to spend the next 18 years being responsible for a needy human being, and yet haven't agreed on it with your husband, probably the supporter of both of you for the first several years anyway, unless you plan to let the taxpayer foot the bill?
    Heck, I've seen husbands walk out the door the minute they find out their wives pulled this little trick.
  • Jan 10, 2011, 12:47 PM
    kristinka323
    I really don't need an advise on my personal life!!
  • Jan 10, 2011, 12:53 PM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristinka323 View Post
    I realy don't need an advise on my personal life!!!!

    Hello k:

    So, screwing doggy style isn't about your private life?? Girl. You put your life out there... Don't be surprised because people comment...

    excon

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