My daughter (and her sister) haven't spoken to me since her wedding
My daughter got married on 12/5/10. I had been an active participant in the wedding planning process & was very excited about my daughter's "big" day. Unfortunately, I had been quite ill before the wedding & woke up that morning very sick. I had to miss the Bride's hair appointment & couldn't get ready at the hotel as planned - luckily, her sister, the maid of honor, was with her throughout the day. I arrived in time for pictures before the ceremony, but found the bride wasn't interested in taking any pictures with me! In fact, the bride's demeanor toward me was quite cool. I chose to ignore her behavior & plunged in trying to make myself useful. But, my daughters quickly informed me that I either wasn't doing things right or what I was doing wasn't necessary. They continued to ignore me & even made sarcastic remarks under their breath - basically they became bridezillas! I couldn't believe my eyes & ears - these definitely weren't my loving & caring daughters - I was completely stunned and told them so. I started setting a few boundaries which they greatly resented. I carried on my MOB responsibilities to the best of my abilities with a broken heart. What had started as one of the best days of my life had turned into a nightmare & I just didn't understand. I was completely devastated. Because I'm a single parent I stayed through dinner and then quiently excused myself & left with some good friends. Shortly after the wedding, I learned that my daughters were confused, hurt, and angry with me, and furthermore, would not be speaking with me until further notice. This was done without providing any explanation. They still haven't chosen to share their feelings with me. Needless to say I'm hurt, confused, angry, & BAFFLED! I would appreciate any experience or thoughts anyone could share. Thank you.
Comment on Homegirl 50's post
Thank you very much for your feedback - I think I have been a bit intimidated by them telling me that they weren't ready to talk yet. But, at least I can make the effort! Thanks again!
Comment on Jake2008's post
Thank you for your thoughtful response, I found it comforting and motivating at the same time. As I said above, I'm going to contact both girls and tell them that I wish to resolve this matter sooner than later. Wish me luck!
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Balancer- inappropriate use of the rating system.