Should I move on? Relationship problems.
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Okay so me & my now ex boyfriend have been breaking up, getting back together, & fighting non stop for about 2 months. His ex girlfriend texts me & makes up a bunch of lies trying to break us up. (she has my number saved in her phone, she doesn't even know me) BUT, she's not the only girl that has popped up. I've repeatedly been called names by these girls & it's frustrating because they won't leave us alone. We were together for 6 months, & we've been through a lot with his insane ex girlfriend. We've been broken up for about a week because he said he was thinking about cheating on me because he says I'm acting like I've been cheating. I'm faithful in a relationship, & I wouldn't do that. He's cheated on all of his past ex girlfriends but he swears he's over the cheating. He said he loves me & that I'm the only girl he's actually been in love with. The sad part is I don't really believe him.. I just think he's a player. I think his excuses are stupid & make no sense; so I dumped him. Was I wrong for dumping him? What should I do with this stiuation? I've had my breaking point & I have no idea what to do.
I feel like I'm ready to move on? But I need help?
So.. I dumped my boyfriend but I need to know how to not give in when he tries to talk to me. I can't change my number for another year because I have verizon. Me & him got together about a month after him & his ex broke up. Basically what happened with our relationship is he hit on other females, his ex girlfriend stalks my phone telling me he hits her up saying to call her or that he loves & misses her. I recently saw a message on my e-mail where he said to call him asap. He said she made the message up. They both told me that she was the first girl he loved (cared about) not in love with her though. I'm not kidding, about 9 females have popped up during our 6 month relationship. He has cheated on his ex's in his past & has told me all about why. He said he's done with the cheating & he would never cheat on me. We get together & break up a LOT because of drama. I usually dump him. He has a really bad temper & he sometimes calls me names & says stuff like "leave me alone" "***** you" then breaks up with me, & then a couple hours later or the next day he apologizes & says he wants me back. The crazy part is he says he's in love with me, he loves me, & he wants to get married to me & have kids. But, I found out the first time he told me he loved me he only said it because he though that's what I wanted to hear. But he then told me he really did grow to love me. He said he thought about cheating on me recently & I'm not with that so I dumped him... I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE. He's so believable that when I try & prove him wrong he makes me believe him & I feel stupid.. he usually says I'm over reacting or that I get mad over stupid stuff. He said if I'm "playing my role" as his girlfriend, then I shouldn't be worried about him cheating. I think that's just an excuse TO cheat on me. What is with this guy??
I keep having dreams about the same person?
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So, me & my ex broke up about a month ago. But we last talked about 3 weeks ago. Lets just say it didn't go well, & our conversation ended by him saying he promises me I won't hear from him again.. kind of harsh, I know. We broke up because another girl is in the picture ( he likes her). For the past 2 weeks I've been having nightmares or just dreams with him in them. Last night my dream was so bad, I woke up crying. My dream was about me seeing him & his new girlfriend together, & seeing how happy they were.. I'm not sure if they're dating, but as far as I know they're just talking. I'm not over him, & if I'm not busy doing something, he comes to mind & I start to get depressed. What do my dreams mean? How can I be happy again in the mean time?