I'm really talkative and I don't always listen to what other say. And the problem is it can cause arguments and I don't even know I'm even doing it! I've tried everything but its like eating! I just do it without even a second thought. Also I'm pretty oversensative all of my immediate family are. Its just ruining my life and I just was wondering if there was anything I could do?

Has someone complained about your talking?

How are you oversensitive?

Yeah since I was a child lol, I've always been bubbly and chatty, urm I get defensive when people say a joke and when I am unsure if someone is joking or not I take it seriously, especially people I am close to or I look up to.

Oh and I also get really upset and low when people point out the obvious, and I know I shouldn't but I'm only 16 and it gets hard sometimes to take things lightly when all your life you been bullied :/

Who has bullied you?

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Oh sorry,I just joined lol :L yeah I was, my cousens and family memebers did, and I was racial bullied in primary school on acount of being asian and a muslim, and tehn later on in secondary school because I was confident and chatty and all the rest. I still get picked on but I do defend myself. But when I'm alone I get depressed about it and wish I was quite, my mum and her friends always pointed out how I can talk for engladn and that put me down BIG TIME and I can't say anything to her even a joke, because she takes it seriously. I have tried comunicating with my parents and friends, but they acuse me of being oversensative. I try not to pick out faults in others, but I get so upset when no oen retusrns the same courtasy :/