I am in love with this guy and we are soon going to be married. He has a child by another girl, which was in the picture before me! Now that they are over and we are together! She is pregnant by another guy! The thing is she is always calling him and they are always on the phone together! Subject "His daughter" but now she calls him having him do things for her! Should I be jealous or just remember where he lay his head at night!

Beware. My niece and her husband have a son almost the same age as his ex's son - They are both his!

Yes I would be worried, He needs to pay his child support, and do visitation not in the babies mammas house. They can even arrange for a third party to pick up and take the child back. He has no reason what so ever being on the phone all the time with his ex.

My spider-sense is tingling off the wall here.When you marry a man you marry all his problems. Make sure you know the truth about his problems before you get married. I have a suspicion that your getting a preveiw of things to come if you continue with this man.

I'm in a similar situation. My boyfriend just recently had a baby with someone else. And I'm kind of in my feelings about him spending two nights in the hospital. The mother had a vagnial birth and not a c-section so doesn't need that much help. Am I wrong?

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Originally Posted by Longlasting06

I am in love with this guy and we are soon going to be married. He has a child by another girl, which was in the picture before me! Now that they are over and we are together! She is pregnant by another guy! The thing is she is always calling him and they are always on the phone together! Subject "His daughter" but now she calls him having him do things for her! Should I be jealous or just remember where he lay his head at night!

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Well I'm still in love with my ex and he got the baby mama drama and we friends now but I have not told him that I feel this way about him. Even though the reason why we broke up was because of his baby mama. And regret everyday of breaking up nwith him because even though we are friends I want us to be something more again but I don't know how to tell him. Jus don't jump to conclusion like I did observe what's going on if you see something wrong ask him how he feel about his baby mama and would he ever leave you for her. You know it's always better to ask then jump to conclusion.