Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We both love each other a lot. But when we are together he doesn't seem to turn me on. I know he is inexperienced because I am his first girlfriend. But I've tried to show him what to do he just doesn't seem to follow. Also we are both virgins. Well we tried having sex for the first time but it hurt so much! He tried to go in many times but it was to painfull. We just recently tried again but it didn't happen. We tried different postions, but it was so painfull I ended up crying. Im very dry when I'm with him even after messing around. I don't know if its him or me. Please help I love him so much.

Veronica, due to restrictions on this forum we first need to verify you age before we can respond.

Im 17 I turn 18 in a couple months

Thanks for being honest. :)

Sadly we do have restrictions here when it comes to giving sexual advice to people under the age of 18.

I know it's only a couple of months, but from a moral and legal standpoint, we would be crossing a line if we gave you any advice about this.

I hope you understand.

When you turn 18 we'd be more than happy to give you advice. Until then, our hands are tied.

Ok and thank you anyway.