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  • Jan 3, 2011, 12:31 AM
    boredwithlife
    Long distance really?
    Hey guys so after a long time of agony over a sucky boyfriend I met this really sweet guy. We hit it off really well and soon we began to spend a lot of time together. After a few months he asked me out and I told him I would think about it. Now the problem is his house is a 3 hour drive from mine and he lives really far. Also he continuously goes to Broome as his hometown is there and his family lives there. I wouldn't mind that but I fear it. So HELP!!
  • Jan 3, 2011, 02:58 AM
    joypulv
    Long distance really does make a relationship more difficult, so I don't know what to say, given the fact that you have just recently gotten over the last guy. Does he drive? Do you? What does broome mean? A place he goes to besides where you are, cutting trips down even more?

    Given the little you have said, I would not get involved. Be glad he helped you get your mind off the sucky guy.
  • Jan 5, 2011, 01:17 PM
    victoriaweaver2
    Do you want to "settle down", as they say? If so, do you see yourself settling down with this guy? If so, try giving it a shot - just remember that not every relationship is going to work out. I mean, what could it hurt? My boyfriend and I live 1 1/2 hours apart, and we make a 3 hour round trip each every weekend to see each other, and its worked for the last year.

    Either way, follow what your heart tells you. Listen to it over your head.
  • Jan 5, 2011, 05:37 PM
    talaniman

    Don't you think that it's a little soon to be getting in to deep with a stranger, even though you are attracted to him? To soon to be exclusive for sure, but you can go out on occasion and see how you feel in say 6 months??

    Then you will at least know better if this is worth a relationship, distance and all. They all look good in the beginning when you first meet, but can end up being sucky later. So naw, date occasionally for the fun of it, but don't get so carried away. That you give your heart to a stranger you don't know very well, who hasn't proved he deserves you.

    You just got out of one sucky relationship, why jump right into another one so fast?
  • Jan 16, 2011, 04:21 AM
    boredwithlife
    Hey guys so in the end I rejected this guy as I didn't find him worth it but thanks for all your advice

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