Hey people, I've known this girl for almost a year, we get on really well, we go out all the time to various places, we text and ring each other for hours on end, but... she has a boyfriend.
Now the thing is, she nor' him doesn't drive, and I do.
They barely see each other, and I'm pretty sure (I know everyone would say this) but I feel I'm better suited for her.
I know she likes me (or at least I think she does), when we hang out at mine or her house, we will cuddle up to each other and talk and have a great time. I once told her I liked her after only a couple of months of knowing her, but now I feel it's time to push things on a bit.
I don't want to pressure her, or lose her by telling her this, but I go home feeling stupid for hanging out with a girl so much when she has a boyfriend... am I just wasting my time :(
Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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Originally Posted by InkMySkin

Hey people, I've known this girl for almost a year, we get on really well, we go out all the time to various places, we text and ring each other for hours on end, but...she has a boyfriend.
Keyword......boyfriend!
Now the thing is, she nor' him doesn't drive, and I do.
This is superficial. Why does this matter?

They barely see each other, and im pretty sure (I know everyone would say this) but I feel i'm better suited for her.
How does anybody know this? It's impossible to know who's better off for who. Don't listen to other people.

I know she likes me (or atleast i think she does),
Don't be so presumtpious. Nothing's guaranteed.

when we hang out at mine or her house, we will cuddle up to each other and talk and have a great time. I once told her i liked her after only a couple of months of knowing her, but now I feel it's time to push things on a bit.
I dont want to pressure her, or lose her by telling her this, but I go home feeling stupid for hanging out with a girl so much when she has a boyfriend...am i just wasting my time :(
Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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First off, she has a boyfriend. Leave her alone. Whether she is unfaithful or not doesn't matter. That doesn't give you rights to her. To be honest you need to tell her to straighten things out with her boyfriend. Let her know how you feel and let her decide.

IMO you need to walk away!

Yehh I've tried leaving her alone, but she comes after me.
I don't know anyone who would want to spend time with someone, if they didn't like them to be fair.
The driving thing is good, as I can see her a lot more than her boyfriend can :/

Thing is, it's almost like they're not togther, I asked her what she's doing new years eve and she said oh I'm just stopping at home with a few friends, turned out to be her boyfriend, why wouldn't she just say "oh i'm staying in with the boyfriend.."

Oh, and when I asked how her night had been after I had a house party (that I invited her to)
She said she had such a boring night, and she was all depressed. I know I'm going on but it's driving me crazy.

How do you tell her you like her, again? By telling her that just hanging out together is driving you crazy and that you will not see her, talk, text, or DRIVE her places anymore. She has the best of both worlds - her absence makes the heart grow fonder manly man, and her chauffeur cuddler confidant.

But if you take this advice, mean it. She may call your bluff and disappear. She may not. She may decide she wants you after a few weeks. Who knows, but which is worse?

I really hate it when young guys get so carried away by a females attention, that they think they have a chance when A) she has a boyfriend, and B) they can lie to your face, and you accept it. Such as her New Years plans.

All she has to do is blow in your ear (or cuddle) and you will follow her anywhere. That's so whupped. Any guy with dignity, and some self respect (or a car) would be getting some one who is honest and cares enough not to have a boy toy behind there boyfriends back, so yes, you are wasting your time and looking foolish doing it.