My boyfriend gets jealous really easy and is controlling.. but he's also the best thing
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 monthhs. I recently moved about 6 months ago. I met him and we instantly fell in love. We both have had boyfriends and girlfriends in the past, but they weren't anything like this. All our old relationships never lasted long. My boyfriend makes me EXTREMELY happy. We can talk about anything and everything.
But some times he gets really jealous. I don't have many friends here. Except his. Which are all dudes. He says I'm flirting with them if I sit next to them or hug them. And another REALLY good friends of mine is also a guy. He is really shy and doesn't really talk to anyone. I went roller skating with him today. And my boyfriend knew. He said that he was extremely jealous. My parents like my boyfriend a lot. But he doesn't think that. My mom jokes around a lot. And he takes it seriously.
I do a lot to keep him happy. But when he goes to parties and does a lot of things, and says that it was fun. But I'm not allowed to do it. One day I asked him why. He said because some one has to control me. I said "yeah. that person is me" and he said "well you are doing a bad job and making mistakes. You are unorganized, you don't say hi to my mom first,you laugh when your mom jokes around about me. You hang out with other guys. "and I just said whatever and apologized for my so called mistakes.
He says he likes how I'm not preppy as the other girls. I am anything but preppy. I skateboard, sing, love screamo music, and I have pink in my hair. He says he loves me for me.. but yet he wants to try to change me. Especially my paranoia. I get scared of getting in trouble easy. And he tells me to get over it. Pulls me into the back to make out. He gets frustrated when I tell him no.
Besides from the controlling and jealousy, he's an amazing boyfriend. He turns down events for me, buys me things, gets along with my brother, makes me feel special, celebrates our monthaversary even if he thinks its childish. But sometimes he controls me. And I want to make him happy. I just don't want him controlling my life.
Help?