I have a best friend whom I can share with any topic under the sun. We really jive well. But she annoys me most of the time when she seems to let me problematize her problems which are really minor. For example, she said that she still doesn't have a prom date. I recommended some of my guy friends. But still she said, 'other choices'. Also, when I tell her of things like schedules. I said for example we have a HW due tomorrow. I said that in school. She then says, 'can you remind me later, text me'. So I'm like saying to myself, 'am I your secretary? I also have other things to do. I'm also a student.' What should I do? She doesn't even reflect about herself. Although I also feel guilty when I scold her about these. I only want her to change for the better, you know.