So has a women ? Do you when you are buy yourself ?

To get the age question out of the way: Her profile says that she is 27 years old.

It would help if you gave us more information such as do you get close, can you reach orgasm through masturbation, what you and your partners tried, and any other information that you think might help us understand what your needs are.

Can you give yourself one? Surprisingly some women complain a man can't give them one when they can't even give themselves one.

If you can, then do you communicate with your man... because to be blunt... women are complicated, and no two women are exactly alike in exactly what it takes for them to orgasm. I'm 49 and no guy I have known can read minds... so we have to rely on our own skills, and signals or direction from the woman as to what's working for her or not.

It saves a lot of time if early on you aren't shy about telling us what works for you and what doesn't. We will (some of us anyway) will learn what you like and dislike and then not need as much direction...


Communication can't be overstated.