Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years now and I have think he might be gay, bisexual/curious. Ok he is a very caring, loving, sweet and sensitive man; here goes, a few months ago, I have found that he has been looking at gay porn sites and the men seeking men column on craigslist list. I confronted him about it his frts answer was he didn't mean to click on that section, he say he do not know how craigslist works. So he got defense about me asking him about the situation. OK second go round he has been on craigslist again and I confront him again, and he got furious. Now he swears he do not want me and but this past two month he was incarcinarated and I just gold his cell phone from his mom. However, he tells me to look in I for a number and yes I be noisy and look through the messages section. This guy was texting a dude from craigslist and was trying to meet up with him, *** would you think? He comes home Friday and I cannot wait to confront him. I love him dearly and I cannot to do any longer.

Mostlikely... he is curious or he might be bi...

When did he say that he doesn't want you? Did he break up with you? Was the contact with the other person made after he told you he doesn't want you anymore?

If he did break up with you before he went to jail, then there is nothing to confront him about. Just walk away with your dignity intact.

If you were still a couple:

I don't think it matters what his sexuality is (which is something that only he can tell you) because attempting to cheat (meeting up with other people-male or female-counts) puts up red flags all over the place. Being bi-sexual or curious is not an excuse to meet up with other people especially when the contact begins through an ad on a website or in a newspaper.

Curiosity is understandable. A lot of people are curious. However, attempting to meet up with someone isn't. Ask yourself if you would put up with this behavior if the 'other person' was female? If you wouldn't, then treat this the same way you would in that case.

I will be honest that I don't think he will stop 'looking' and, though it will not be easy, letting go may be your best option. Trying to keep him or get him back (as the case may be) will probably end in things being said and done that could and should be avoided.

If you choose to leave, we have many resources and a lot of advice to help you heal and move forward. Take care of yourself and good luck.