I used to live with my boyfriend and we broke up I tried to work things out for a year but he kept on playing games with me. Then one day he came asking for money to pay of a debt saying after we could be together . I said no then he call me selfish and mean and he stop talking to me am I wrong to say no

So basically he played games with you for a year, then decided he needed your money and came back for money.

Do you really even need to ask? It sounds like you already know.

Kick this deadbeat out of your life.

Bravo, you kept your money, and dignity and self respect. You don't need him, and made a good decision for yourself.

If your wanting to throw away your hard earned money on someone who plays games, and doesn't really care about your feelings, then get on a plane to Las Vegas and hit the casino's. Your odds of getting your money back with less emotional abuse are a lot better then with the ex-boyfriend.

You did the right thing, and I agree with the others- good for you for not getting suckered into loaning him money.

Good on you for asserting yourself. It can be very hard to say no to someone we care about (or thought we cared about). This feels like a very transparent act of manipulation. You saw right through it!