I am lost with my current relationship
Hey everyone. I feel awkward asking for help on this but I'm hoping you'll be able to help me. I'll start from the beginning and try to keep this brief.
I first met this girl at a function for my fraternity and her sorority. A friend of mine from high school introduced me to her and I let her borrow my tie for our Late Night at the Office theme party. I didn't talk to her at all really but definitely was attracted to her.
A few weeks later we ran into each other at a party and talked for awhile and kind of hit it off. We started txting a lot. I think it's crucial at this point to say that she started conversations with me, it was not all me. I asked her to hang out a couple of times and she kept saying no because she was studying (it was getting near the end of the semester). She did say she wanted to hang out and a few of my friends talked to her (without my knowledge) and she told them the same thing.
Finally she came over and we hung out a couple of times. The problem I have is she likes to go out and party a lot and I don't party too often. There is a lot of conflict with her wanting me to go to parties and me wanting her to come over and hang out with me. Anyway, we had hung out a couple of times and everyone was telling me that she liked me. However, I have yet to make a move and my guy friends are talking trash about how I haven't made a move and my girl friends are telling me that she wants me to make a move.
This seems like a good sign and I really do want to make a move. However, school ended and we both had nothing really going on but she kept refusing to hang out. I asked her to ocme over and she said she was always hanging out with friends. She kept teasing me saying she may come over and such.
I'm just so lost at this point. I don't want to turn her off by asking her to hang out too much but at the same time I want to hang out so I can make a move like everyone is telling me to do. I guess I just want to hear what advice you all have.